I was attracted by the blog title “Marriage isn’t for you” and I reblogged it.
I have been thinking lately that I might not be suitable to go into a marriage, not because I cannot afford the obligation and commitment. Maybe freedom is the best release of life that you need not to care about the person whom you care so much, how the person think about you and how your actions or thinking will affect the person.
Maybe the idea of getting into a relationship does not exist anymore. Compromises are never enough. I just do not want to make my life so tough anymore, not to lower down myself just to accommodate anyone. Being myself, do not consume me that fast.
As mentioned in the “Marriage is’t for you”, it is fortunate and lucky for the guy that he realized his selfishness at least not too late. Saw too many posts on FB lately about divorce stories and how to save the marriage, well sometimes unconditional love and sacrifice can save a marriage or relationship in the end of the story; But forever is too long to reach. The one who gives always suffers.
The happily ever after only happens when time is short enough to prove.
I am learning life while experiencing it, just like everyone else.
I have been asking God.
Olivia & Ice @ hectic day